Relationships have the power to hurt us. And the power to heal us.
Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon

Hi, I'm Dr. Alexandra Solomon
Founder of The Institute for Relational Self-Awareness
This is my Story
Growing up as the oldest daughter in a chaotic family system, I spent a lot of my childhood seeing the big people I loved in pain and feeling unable to help. My journey to a career as a licensed clinical psychologist was an effort to make sense of what I saw around me and felt inside me.
My years in academia and clinical work led me to create the framework I call Relational Self-Awareness. By integrating research and clinical wisdom, I am able to provide you with a set of tools and insights that will help you bring curiosity and compassion to your most important relationships.
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